Finally, on that same note: Don’t bring up his stresses or struggles – he’ll bring them up himself if he wants to talk about them.
I want him to know I’m here for him and that I’m not going anywhere, even though it’s tough. Here are a few things to consider: First, remember that his situation is tough for him (independent of whether or not he’s in a relationship).
Just be a well of admiration, appreciation, and love and give him the space to come around.
Also, if you’re still unsure what’s going on in your relationship, then definitely take our “Is He Losing Interest?
And if you aren't getting satisfactory answers, it is time to look elsewhere. Furthermore, your time is your responsibility - not his.
For better or worse, men will not make commitments that aren't required of them. If he really wants you, he will try to get you back; but if he doesn't, remember: during your most eligible years, you are better off being back on the market than tied up in a dead-end relationship.