Believe it or not, guys do feel emotional attachment after sex, but they try to ignore and deny it.The brief, pre-slumber moments after a man is completely sexually satisfied are filled with contemplation.Well, let me tell you, I have been that guy and as soon as the sun came up, the sex kitten in my arms didn't become the "love of my life," she became "the lust of my life." Contrary to what most women believe, giving a guy the best sex of his life does not get you any closer to his heart, but it can lead you to HIS TIPPING POINT, that critical time when a man's sexual satisfaction opens the emotional pathway for him to fall in love.If this window of opportunity isn't handled correctly, it can actually keep you categorized as his woman below the belt.A Sex Kitten knows that if she numbs the icky feelings like anger or sadness, she’ll be numbing all the wonderful feelings life has to offer, like passion, peace and joy.She also knows she gets to choose how she desires to feel.He now knows what you can do in bed; show him what you can do outside the boudoir.
First, great sex shouldn't morph you into a doting girlfriend. Then follow these four steps to transform him from lusting you to loving you.
She knows that in order to feel as if she really belongs to a group, she can’t hide behind masks or get lost in perfection.
In order to figure out who you really are and what you want in this world, you have to gain clarity in all areas of your life.
Step One: After you show him your moves, move over.
Retreat to the other side of the bed and do not make physical contact. Please yourself, please him, and then get the hell out of there. I don't care if it takes five days, let him reach out first.